Six Months

I have pages of notes from the last six months, but I can’t seem to find the time to get them posted. So instead of continuing to let them pile up, I’m just going to start here. Maybe I’ll catch up some day.

Thought 1

Pretty sure she peed on the carpet this morning at 2:30 am (during her 2nd poopy diaper change) and I just covered it up with a blanket and pretended I didn’t see it.

Thought 2

Her pooping is out of control (four times in 12 hours). It’s been like this all week…like, I’ve never, ever seen this much poop. On her. On me. On everything. I’m blaming it on teething. That has to be it, right?

Thought 3

I’ve created a monster. In my attempt to be a cool, go-with-the-flow parent, I failed to establish a nap routine. As a first-time mom, I think this has been the hardest thing to figure out because I’m not with her every day. BUT, I have tried very hard to establish a bedtime routine, and that hasn’t done shit. (Yes, you guessed it, she’s still not sleeping through the night).

Thought 4

I’m so tired. For the first time in six months I’m actually feeling exhausted, and a little hopeless. I’m not sure I’ll ever see eight hours of sleep again.

Thought 5

EJ is three days shy of sixth months and weighing in at 13.2 lbs and 24.25″. She’s going to be in her 3-6 month clothes until March. I guess we’ll be rocking sweater dresses in May (since her 6-12 month stash is all winter clothes).

Thought 6

There are nursing pads all over the house—in the washer, on the nightstand, stuck to my foot—and I’m so over it.

Thought 7

Pampers diapers are so expensive… but they might be worth it, if it means I don’t have to spend every morning scrubbing poop out of her pajamas.

Thought 8

Mom guilt is real. I still don’t like watching her leave for daycare in the morning.

Thought 9

I’m super sorry if I’ve become the smelly kid. Sometimes I can’t even remember the last time I showered.

Thought 10

I know I’m biased, but she’s so cute I can hardly stand it.


Thought 11

I’m drowning in puke-covered laundry. Part of me thinks I should double my wardrobe (so I don’t have to worry about it). The other part of me thinks I should cut it in half (and force myself to do it more often).



Labor might actually be the easy part.

I am so, so behind. I may, or may not, have a four months worth of thoughts, notes, and musings in Wunderlist. I’m sure I’ll get to them some day…

I’ll start with Part 1:

Sunday morning (my due date) started out like any other day. Except for that fact that it was my due date…and Jay was desperate to get the baby out. Funny, right? Not like he was carrying around an extra 25 pounds. Don’t get me wrong, I was ready to be done with the whole pregnancy thing—I wanted my body back. My tailbone was out of place, I had swelling in places I didn’t know was possible, and my feet smelled as bad as my sister’s (hormones are whack). I wanted a glass of wine, sushi, over easy eggs, raw cookie dough, smoked salmon, brie, cold pasteurized juice, a medium rare steak, and maybe even a Jimmy John’s sandwich full of nitrates, just because. Oh, and I really, really wanted to lay flat on my back and stretch. I know, you’re thinking that one should be lower priority, but stretching just isn’t the same when you are pregnant. All that to say: I’m not the I-love-being-pregnant-so-much type.

We decided to try walking the baby out and did the four mile loop around the lake. Surprisingly, I went the entire walk without a bathroom break. Forty weeks pregnant and I get my PR (woot woot). It’s the little things.

That afternoon I had a feeling something might happen, but a girl has a lot of feelings during pregnancy, so I just assumed my body was reminding me I was forty weeks pregnant. Taunting me, actually. I mean, it had basically tortured me for the last ten months, why stop now? Ok, that was dramatic, but for real…So what else does one do when she doesn’t know what’s happening in her body? Google it, of course. And according to Google, I was having contractions, but they didn’t feel like what the doctors kept telling me they would feel like, so I was utterly confused.

Meanwhile, I had put Jay and Carlee in charge of dinner. If I was going to the hospital that night I WAS GOING TO EAT dinner because you aren’t allowed to eat when you are in labor. Isn’t that nuts? Labor is like a running a marathon. You can’t do that shit on fake apple juice and popsicles. I felt like I needed something of substance and that substance came in the form of catfish linguine. No, not my normal meal of choice, but I had ordered a free week of Blue Apron and we had to use the supplies before they went bad—I hate wasting food. PS I’m telling you this because it’s important to the story, not because you actually care about what I ate for dinner. Anyway, catfish, noodles, capers, pecorino cheese… get the picture? Good.

Fast forward a few hours and my contractions are 3.5 minutes apart and I’ve tried “walking it out,” bouncing on the exercise ball while watching Sisters (I thought a good laugh might help—it did not), and sitting in the bath tub (twice). By ten o’clock I was ready to call it quits on the whole natural labor thing. I wanted drugs…like, now. The fifteen minute car ride was terrible, but waiting on the nurse to officially admit me was torture. Once I was in the room I had to decide which drug I wanted. I had planned on laughing gas, but they didn’t offer it to me. I didn’t know anything about Stadol, but I could only use that until 8 cm. I was worried about the epidural dragging out the labor, but everyone said to do it anyway. This was the one time I wished I had created a birth plan. It’s hard to have sound judgment when all you want to do is vomit.

Vomit. Yes, this is where dinner comes back into play. I decided to do a two-course meal with my drugs—Stadol was the appetizer to my epidural—and while I was waiting for the Stadol I became violently ill during one of my contractions. Luckily, Jay had the puke bag ready. Unfortunately, it came out of my nose and my mouth. Catfish. Capers. Pecorino cheese. NOSE and mouth. It wasn’t that good going down. It was down right awful coming back up.  That actually takes the cake for the worst thing that happened to me at the hospital. (I know, it sounds nuts if you haven’t had baby, but epidurals are magic.)

To be continued…

Sweet dreams (hopefully they aren’t filled with catfish). xo



I’m so behind, but it’s still kind of funny.

The week before EJ was born:

This is so weird.

This is my usual, and unfortunate, response to life-altering events; things that are so surreal I can’t actually figure out how to wrap my brain around them and respond in an adult manner. I just utter these profound words. Like when Jay proposed, instead of saying, “Yes! I love you SO much!,” I said,”This is so weird.” No, I will never, EVER live that down. [To be fair, there is a bit more to the story, but we will save that for another time.]

And here I am again saying, “This is so weird.” This tiny human is going to want out any day now, and instead of thinking about how amazing all of this is, I just keep thinking about my knees being up to my chin and my vagina hanging out for the world to see, and all the other gross stuff that goes with birthing a child. Oh, and the fact that I’M BIRTHING A CHILD. There is something living inside of me. That’s weird, right?

Tying my shoes is the hardest part of my workout, but I refuse to let someone tie them for me. I am not a child. I’m just squashing the child inside of me. And that’s uncomfortable, for both parties, I assume.

As I’m prepping for this life altering event, I’ve made sure to take care of the really important things: haircut + color, pedicure, sugaring. I’m not sure how much of the next few weeks (months, years) I’ll be able to control, so I thought some grooming would at least make me feel better. That way, when I can’t shower more than once every few days, my greasy hair won’t have any grey streaks and my toes will look nice.

Are you wondering about sugaring, or did you just skip over that part? Let me explain. My hair stylist is also an expert in hair removal. She was quite adamant that once I was pregnant I needed to let her assist me in that area as well…

The “sugar” goo is made of lemon, sugar and water, and is supposed to be better for your skin. I thought this meant it was also less painful than waxing. That was a very incorrect assumption. It has to be stretched across your skin and it’s much sticker than wax. Like, really sticky. So needless to say, the first time was a bit of a surprise.

It was also a surprise that when I left things were still sticking together…

To be fair, the second time was better. In part, because I knew what to expect, but mostly because Beth was done in <5 min. I also knew how to get the sugar off this time. Thank, God.

However, the third time… oh, the third time… that was brutal. I had a newbie and she was, let’s say, thorough. I expected 5 minutes and it lasted 20+. Numerous times I  considered just rolling off the table and calling it good enough, but I figured the whole experience was good prep for labor. I just kept telling myself this pain would pale in comparison.



Girly Grunderpants

Yesssss. I can finally make nursery purchases… And buy those cute metallic moccasins I spotted at Baby Gap… And those headbands with little bitty bows. All the important stuff, ya know?

I have a different post detailing my second trimester and our gender “reveal,” but I thought I would share my nursery plans first. (Again, the important stuff.)

Before we even found out the gender I had created a boy and a girl inspiration board. Putting a room together is one of my favorite things—I may have missed my calling—and I couldn’t wait until December to start.

Baby boy would have gotten a room like this: modern + woodsy + organic, with a fairly neutral color palette. While I love so many colors and styles, this is where my head went when I thought about having a little boy. I was also thinking Jay would appreciate the paper mache deer head. Turns out paper mache, or any form of deer art, is not a compromise for the real thing…


Now, when I sat down to create baby girl’s nursery, I didn’t intend to make it so… girly. I never thought I would actually use pink—how cliche, right?—but there is just something so perfect about blush that I couldn’t help myself.


While I have had a lot of luck with my initial design, I have run into a few snags along the way:

1) I’m not sure I’ll have space for any table lamps. I had two picked out and I kind of loved this one. Must find another place in the house…

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2) The fabric I found (which was perfect) is not recommended for children’s bedding. I’ve spent hours scouring the internet for a replacement. I almost gave up and created my own, until I came across this gem from Spoonflower. Thank you, fabric Gods. BTW, did you notice how good this fabric looks with the lamp above? I’m having a hard time letting go.


3) The door knob curtain tie backs are not going to work. They just don’t make sense with curtain rings (which I had to use because my curtains were just a tad bit short and the next size up was too long). I’m a little sad about this because they were also adorable.

4) The frame/print situation has caused some serious decision paralysis. The first grouping I put together included a print I bought back in the spring, but when I went to place my frame order I realized it wouldn’t fit in any of the size options. Once I decided to give up on using that print in the gold frames, the 8×10 frame size was sold out. I could only find gold gallery frames at one other site, and of course, that site had to give me two size options: 8×10 or 11×14. Rather than just picking one, I decided it would be wise to figure out which prints I really wanted (and what size they all came in). Here were some of my options:

Precious, but not the right vibe.

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Meh…the gold didn’t fit.

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In the end, I picked these three because I want this baby girl to be fierce in her beliefs, sweet in her demeanor, and to own whoever she is. #StrongFemale

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The downside: they all come in 8×10 and 11X14. So much for helping me make my decision…